
With over 16 years working in the mental health field, SC Nealy (they/she) has their second Master's degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling and is on the Board of Directors at Equality Arlington and NOVA Pride. SC was also named the 2024 Humanitarian and Caring Person Award recipient from Virginia Counselors Association and recipient of Arlington County 2025 Women (Person) of Vision Award, and is an NBCC's Approved Clinical Supervisor. With a person-centered, emotion-focused approach aimed at finding solutions, healing trauma, building resilience, improving interpersonal relationships, connecting the mind and body, and working through triggers and past pain, SC wants their clients to feel heard, understood, and valued in the therapeutic space and in their lives.
SC Nealy currently specializes in self-esteem, religious trauma or "church hurt," sexual trauma and other trauma, complex PTSD, body image issues, resilience building, depression/anxiety, mindfulness, LGBTQIA2S+ issues (especially premarital and queer couples counseling in LGBTQ+ relationships), queer family therapy, discernment/uncoupling counseling, current and former sex workers, couples counseling, mixed orientation relationships (gender transitions or sexual orientation changes), late in life lesbian experiences, religious trauma and spiritual exploration, premarital counseling, & cishet women's issues.
Personally, SC identifies as gender fluid and queer/lesbian. They are a parent of 2 kiddos living in Arlington, VA and co-parent joyfully with their ex-husband and partner together. They also write queer romance novels on the side and work extensively in queer advocacy both politically and locally.
SC Nealy is currently accepting new clients on a limited basis, especially for queer pre-marital counseling, lesbian/non-binary couples counseling, or group therapy participants. SC Nealy often has their therapy dog, Elly, in the office with them.
Run 3x a year virtually, this 12 week group focused on psychoeducation around religious trauma, breaking down shame/judgment, restructuring relational patterns, exploring identity outside of religious doctrines, purity culture, the impact on LGBT identities and shame, perfectionism, boundary setting, and increasing autonomy in individual choices toward or away from spirituality and/or religion. This group is open to anyone from any religious background and is intended to help clients reach their own personal goals for religion which may include staying in a religion, growing in a religion, or leaving a religion. All our welcome. Please email to be added to the next session.
SC Nealy leads two weekly process groups in person for those identifying as female in their 20s and 30s on Mondays at 5p-6:15p or Mondays at 6:30p -7:45p in Arlington, VA.
This group is capped at 8 participants each and focuses on self-compassion, trauma, self-esteem, relationships, interpersonal skills building, self-advocacy, identity formation, and more. This group meets 3x a month and requires a 12 session commitment.
Please email to schedule an evaluation for entry today.
SC Nealy specializes in working with late-in-life lesbians or queer-identifying women who came out as queer in a later stage of their life journey. This unique experience can lead to a lot of emotional turmoil, including divorce, parenting hardships, new relationships, attachment struggles, learning to find community, self-confidence, compassion, and more.
SC loves working with queer women to find their authentic selves no matter what stage of life they are in. They also lead a Queer Women's Process Group for those 40+ years old.
Mixed Orientation Relationships (M.O.R.E.) are partnerships where two or more people's sexual and/or gender identity are not the same. SC has worked with couples at every stage in this transition and loves to help clients find a new path forward together as the new chapter of their relationship unfolds.
SC Nealy also specializes in working with couples and relationships in which there are mixed neurotypes, such as Autism Spectrum, ADHD, or other neurodivergent and neurotypical pairings. Please email to be considered.
SC Nealy specializes with families practicing non-heteronormative parenting models, including child-centered divorce, nesting models, polyamory relationships, cohabitating with the other parent, and other models of queer family living. As a parent themselves coparenting and having utilized the nesting model with their ex-husband and best friend, SC Nealy wants other queer families to feel empowered to create the situations that feel best to them and their family needs.
SC Nealy, LPC loves work that focuses on bisexual, multisexual, pansexual, gender fluid etc. female presenting persons in a straight-passing relationship (or single!) who are trying to explore their queer identity in a cishet world. It's so important to continue being seen and allowed space to explore yourself and who you are, even if in environments or relationships that are barriers or at odds to that goal or experience.
SC Nealy specializes with couples counseling particularly in female-identifying or nonbinary relationships, including lesbians, queer women, sapphic persons, transmasc identities, nonbinary persons, and more. The unique dynamics that occur in relationships with AFAB individuals is not often understood in the counseling space, so it's incredibly important to have a couples counselor who understands and has lived experience in those styles of romantic relationships.
SC Nealy has a passion for working with former and current sex workers of all types, including virtual and full service sex workers. In partnership with Pineapple Support as a volunteer provider, SC works with assisting clients along their mental health journey in non-judgmental and open spaces.
One of SC's biggest passions is working with other therapists, and they often have therapists on their caseload as clients. If you're worried about dual relationships or being understood in the field that you work in, SC focuses on helping therapists help themselves.
SC is also a licensed clinical supervisor in Virginia and Washington, DC for pre-licensed therapists to provide supervision hours, and is an Approved Clinical Supervisor (ACS) with the National Borad for Certified Counselors (NBCC).
Humanizing Values Podcast: An Interview with SC Nealy
Navigating Spirituality Without Harm
November 2025 | Listen Here
2025 Best LGBT+ Owned Business in Washington, DC
October 2025 | Washington Blade
Queer Family Podcast: Season 20, Episode 8
October 2025 | Listen Here
2025 Queer Leader Award, We Create Spaces
For Creating Inclusive Workplaces in America
Approved Clinical Supervisor (ACS) License
Certified May 2025 by National Board for Certified Counselors
My Gender IQ Podcast: Episode 10, Guest Host
May 2025 | Listen Here
2025 Supervision Summit Speaker on Supervising LGBTQIA+ Clinicians
May 2025 | https://www.supervisionsummit.com/
2025 Rainbow Shield Award, May 2025
Modern Military Association of America
2025 Best Business Award Finalist, May 2025
Arlington County Chamber of Commerce
Board Member at Equality Arlington
Spring 2025 - November 2025
2025 Women (Person) of Vision Award Recipient
Commission on the Status of Women | Arlington County, VA
Religious Trauma: How to Recognize and Address it in LGBT+ Folx, Modern Military Magazine
Article by SC Nealy
December 2024 | Read it here
2024 Humanitarian and Caring Person of the Year Award by Virginia Counselors Association
November 2024 | Virginia Beach, VA
Most LGBT+ Friendly Workplace in Washington, DC Area to LGBT+ Counseling Collaborative
October 2024 | Washington Blade
Embracing Change: Navigating Identity and Relationships in the Queer Community, Conversations for Couples Podcast
April 2024 | Listen to it here
The Entrepreneurial Therapist Podcast: Episode 111
How Sarah Made $240K in Solo Private Practice in Year 1
February 2024 | Listen here
Board Member at NOVA Pride
Summer 2023 - Current
Religious Trauma Drastically Impacts Queer Community, Washington Blade
Article by SC Nealy
October 2023 | Read it here
Board Member at Postpartum Support Virginia
February 2022 - 2025
SC Nealy Interviewed Live on Television for Queer Romance Novels
November 2023 | DC NBC4 News | Watch Here
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