
Connor K., LPC, LCPC (he/him) has a Masters of Arts in Counseling Psychology and over 16+ years of clinical experience serving a wide range of clinical populations, including adults and couples/relationships. He specializes in integrating the body's language, the mind's thoughts, and the heart's emotions to help his clients find belonging and connection, especially in trying times. He has extensive experience working with adults of emotionally immature parents, adult children of dysfunctional and/or addicted families, codependency, substance use/misuse, perfectionism, sexual issues, trauma, relationship issues, and people-pleasing personalities and tendencies. He is additionally interested in working with adult men of all identities and orientations, but he is highly experienced in working with adults across all gender and sexual orientation spectrums.
Connor integrates the wisdom of body and mind through somatic therapies, mindfulness-based approaches, and practicing accepting and welcoming tough emotions into the therapeutic space. His approach is warm, empathic, affirming and creative both in techniques and rapport. Connor is sex-, kink-, and poly-affirming for any clients of those backgrounds or exploration journeys. He is especially fond of the use of metaphors and visualization to connect with his client's experiences, and feels using creativity and novelty in the therapeutic space can be deeply healing.
Whether clients are looking to overcome personal challenges, relationship conflict, emotional distress, or seeking self-improvement and growth, Connor has immediate openings to guide individuals and couples/partnered relationships to a sense of belonging of self and an empowered and authentic connection with others.
Currently taking individual clients ages 18+ years old and couples/relationships. Available in person in Arlington, VA, or telehealth elsewhere. Licensed and able to see clients in VA, DC, and MD. Coaching available in other states when clinically appropriate.
Connor specializes in helping adult children of emotionally immature parents recover from codependent behaviors learned as survival skills in childhood. Adult children are defined as humans “whose actions and decisions as an adult are guided by childhood experiences grounded in self-doubt or fear.”
Connor’s work helps to gently challenge limiting core beliefs developed in childhood while helping develop the adult skills necessary to live a meaningful life. As adult children are often taught to abandon their experiences and needs to favor the immature caregivers’ needs, therapy sessions focus on reconnecting with one’s voice, experiences, and boundaries.
Connor has trained in levels I and II Sensorimotor Psychotherapy. Because our bodies are the central way we experience our lives, somatic approaches help us discover healing from a “bottom up” approach, centering the wisdom of the body to inform new thought patterns and beliefs.
Whether virtual or in-person, sensorimotor psychotherapy is an effective tool to reconnect with one’s full lived experiences to dismantle negative self-talk, build healthy boundaries, and heal from traumas and childhood wounds.
Connor has training in multiple therapeutic methods for couples and relationship counseling, and utilizes those approaches with queer couples of all diversity to better repair trust ruptures and wounds, re-establish safety, assist in identifying triggers in conflict and learning to regulate throughout, and improving communication between the couple/relationship.
Currently working on his sex therapy certification with AASECT, Connor loves helping clients establish healthy sexual lives within their relationships and improve communication and safety somatically and emotionally with one's partner(s).
Connor specializes specifically in the treatment of alcohol use disorder, marijuana use disorder, and methamphetamine-sex fusion often experienced by gay men. With 4 years of experience working in an Intensive Outpatient Program setting and over 10 years in private practice, Connor has helped his clients navigate their recovery goals and reintegrate into personal, professional, and academic settings effectively.
Connor utilizes abstinence and Harm Reduction Models in the therapy space for those with both a history of substance use/abuse, as well as in current use. Please note that those in active addiction might need to work with additional sources of support in tandem with Connor, such as IOP settings, support groups, sobriety coaches, or more.
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